How to Help Prepare Your Child for High School

Most kids feel anxious about moving from junior high or middle school to high school. This change often means moving to a much larger and more intimidating environment. For many students, this change is scary. But there are ways to help ensure a smooth transition to high school for your child.

Talk it Out

Be open to talking about your child's feelings about high school. Be excited and encouraging and don't constantly dwell on your own experiences in high school. Showing enthusiasm may rub off on them and if your child shares his or her expectations, you might be able to eliminate unnecessary stress by dispelling any false notions he or she may have. Be sure to attend orientation day if the high school offers one. Your child may discourage you from attending, but it is an important step to understanding the educational experience your child will have.

Be Prepared

Before your child begins high school, be sure that he or she has developed and understands good study habits and organization. The workload in high school will be more demanding than that of junior high or middle school. Be sure that your child is aware and capable of handling the homework and projects that will come. If they are prepared and ready for the work, it will make the experience much less stressful.

Iron Out the Details

Be sure that you are clear with your children about transportation arrangements to and from school. Will they get a ride from a neighbor or will you be driving? Also, be sure that your child arrives at school with all the necessary binders, paper, pens, pencils, calculators, etc. Forgetting homework or supplies can cause unnecessary stress.

Lend an Ear

Be supportive and open to communication with your child. High school is a big change, but it doesn't have to be scary. Be sure that your child knows that they can talk with you about any issues that may arise. They'll be exposed to many new and disturbing things in high school, like drugs, peer pressure and sex. Be ready to talk about these topics in an open, sympathetic way so your young adult will have no cause for hesitation in coming to you with their problems.