Improving Your Child's Grades

Whether it's fractions and decimals or antonyms and analogies, many students struggle with the basics of math and reading. Skill gaps lead to discouragement, which shows up as low self-confidence, self-defeating behavior, poor grades and even behavioral problems. But sometimes all a child needs is a little creative involvement from mom and dad. Here are some very simple, easy to use ideas that might help.

School is Important!

Talk about how valuable education is and how it can benefit your child's future. Consciously learn something new every day and make a game of it with your family. Make homework a family activity and participate by checking in and helping out. When a family member's grades are suffering, show them that the whole family cares and wants them to feel good about their schoolwork. When your child succeeds make sure they are congratulated.

Set Realistic Goals

Be reasonable. Don't expect miracles to happen overnight. Academic progress is a slow but steady process. Help your child understand what they're trying to accomplish and that there are no shortcuts. Improving their grades is a goal worth reaching, not a punishment. Allow your child to suggest solutions to the problem. This will empower them and give them a say in their educational destiny.

Be a Mentor

Be available for your child. If you're willing to sit down and help them get through a tough assignment, they'll be more willing, too. Remember that learning is about encountering what you don't already know. That can be scary! Be patient and responsive in helping your child master new skills Your child will be receptive to learning more quickly if they can count on you to help no matter what the problem.

Make Learning Fun!

Your child might be bored. Turn homework and study into a game. Make some flash cards or purchase age appropriate knowledge educational games. Get everyone in the family involved.

Know When to Ask for Help

No matter what, establishing an environment where learning is a fun and important is a great thing to do. But sometimes it's not enough. Some children just don't respond well when mom and dad try to help with school. Know when to turn to a tutor, or any of the numerous programs affiliated with local schools and libraries. Many children suffer from learning disabilities. Consider seeking professional help. A counselor should be able to identify problems and give suggestions for how to help a child learn at full potential.